New born comes with happiness and joy in life and if you are expecting twins, then everything will be multiplied. It is just like you are feeling the two other hearts within you. It is amazing feeling which mixes with joy and fear, smile and tear. During your pregnancy, you need to be very brave to make any situation normal, so that a small issue does not bother you. During my pregnancy, I was running out of the confidence and information. Now I wish I’d know those things about expecting twins, I could make my pregnancy loving. Here I am going to explain 10 issues I wish I’d known about expecting twins.
- You have to have a good source of energy:
Handling twins is really a difficult task for you, so you have to have a good source of energy. You may not sleep well, eat well in your post pregnancy, but you should learn to sustain patience. It is common that to look after your two babies and to make them calm, you may not have time for yourself, so be prepared for everything. I do not make you scared; instead I introduce you with the reality.
- Your life will be beautiful:
With the two kids, you can really love your life and you want to live your childhood again with them. It is the time to experience those innocent things that you have missed with your age. The Time has come to change; changes in your lifestyle, change in your thought and change in your likings and disliking. You can find happiness even in a small thing like Watching cartoons with your kid, will be fun loving.
- You need to give yourself time:
It is true that taking care of twins is indeed hard, but you need time to understand what they want. As the time passes, you know their individual quality and can relate them beautifully. For this, you should give yourself time to understand their crying and smiling. If you think you can make everything normal overnight, you made mistakes.
- Take care of yourself:
You need to take care of yourself in terms of looks and being fit. You should feel the joy and if you think the life of pre-twin is beautiful, then you will never be happy. Try to do everything the same as it was; feel your life. Give a little time to your skin, hair and beauty may make you feel good with handling the responsibility of your two kids.
- Maintaining a beautiful marriage life is difficult:
You have lots of duties and each one you need to fulfill; in between you have no time to look after your husband’s wishes. Rather, you disturb him at midnight to help you in making them calm. So it is not the same time you both are going through as it was before your pregnancy. I got my husband support and you need to share your emotions and feelings with him and in that way, you can make your bonding beautiful.
- Take lots pictures to make the moment memorable:
One thing that makes your future loving is that capturing the moments with your twins and it will definitely make you smile in the future. The sweet memories are memorable for you and which gives you pain now, remembering these days will give you the joy of life.
- Seek help from the babysitter or from people around you:
You may not be able to take care of both kids at the same time, so it is better to hire a babysitter who looks after your kids, even when you go out for some work. You can also ask your relatives and friends for the help. Managing everything in single hand will be difficult for you, so asking help make your task easier.
- Never lose confidence:
You have to be strong enough to raise your twins well. You may get help from others, but ultimately it is your responsibility to take care of everything. Losing confident at that time is not good for you. You have to think yourself as a warrior who can face any challenges regardless of its difficulty.
- buy baby toys and baby worker to make your task easy:
Go for those accessories that keep them busy in their own world, in between, you can find some time for yourself. Baby walker and soft toys are the best in this regard, but you should be around them all the time so that they cannot harm themselves.
- You may have feelings of guilt, but don’t think in this way:
It is hard to take care of both babies at the same time. Making one kid calm, you have to let another one crying. You cannot figure out how to feed them at the same time and these feelings come with a sense of guilt. You no need to think in that way, instead give your best and make everyone happy.