Miscarriage is always painful and it makes you poor, both physically and mentally. You constantly think that if it would be your bad dreams at night that and with the new light of morning, it goes away. You are deeply hurt by this news and want to keep yourself alone, even you don’t like to meet your relatives and friends, but this thing makes the situation worst and no good. Take your time and accept this truth and let others know about your miscarriage, it gradually makes the situation normal. Though telling this news is not easy at all, there are different ways you can inform others about your miscarriage. The content deals with those ways of sharing this news to others.
You can give this news in person:
To inform your relatives and friends, you can tell them in person and their support helps you to overcome the pain that you go through. Yet it is difficult, but once you share your pain, the future journey will be good for you; otherwise it always reminds you of this bad dream. But you should be prepared for anything, because some comments may hurt you, even if it is not intentionally done. Some people just don’t know how to say, but that does not mean they want to hurt you. Give no response and feel their love for you.
You can inform others in writing:
It is the easiest way to tell others about this news, you can send them an email or just a text message explaining about your situation. You can even give this information to your office and coworker in writing. If you need any support from them in respect of leave or something, you can write it in your message, if any. You can even post this news on social networking site to tell your friends if you inform them about your pregnancy. Simple and through the plain words, you can tell them about your loss. You can find some condolence comments that make the situation worse for you, you need to ignore them and keep moving in your life.
Tell your friends to inform others:
You can inform others through a friend about this loss if you do not want to face them in such time. You can do it through your friends and that also keeps you away from some painful condolence that make your grief deeper. But first you need to be prepared mentally for this as some people do not understand the way you feel and that may hurt you. You can share your emotion with someone who can understand you. Sharing this news helps you to reduce your pain and it is better than hiding your sorrow in your mind.
Sharing the news with the child:
If you have a kid, then explain it to him/her in a plain way, especially the way he/she can understand about it. How you can tell this news to your child depend on the age of your child. You can tell them as the baby is not growing or something so that he/she could understand. Try yourself open to make everything normal.